Can Gratitude Be a Form of Meditation?

October 23rd, 2011 by admin No comments »

I attended a Yoga teacher intensive in Attleboro, Massachusetts on meditation in 2006. At that intensive, we were taught so many different forms of meditation over the course of a Columbus Day weekend that I filled a note book. One method that really stuck to my mind was a mantra meditation that is so easy to practice. It consists of just two syllables and both are English words. Sometimes, this mantra helps me in prayer, sometimes this mantra helps me gain control of my breath, and sometimes this mantra helps me to meditate or relax. Here are the two magic words: “Thank You.” For breath awareness purposes, “thank” goes well with an inhale, and “you” goes well with an exhale. Until 2006, I never met anyone who could break down the most complicated Yogic ideas into mentally digestible concepts.

With Yoga teachers and bestsellers touting an endless array of meditation styles, the whole concept can be intimidating. As soon as we think we have figured it out, here comes another workshop or article making us wonder if we are meditating at all, much less doing it correctly. No wonder the process seems so mysterious and confusing.

Perhaps meditation is like religion or politics; controversy may sometimes stem from individual interpretation of words rather than major differences in beliefs. People to others with similar backgrounds initially taught all kinds of meditation – regardless of whether it is called mindfulness, centering prayer, Yoga, qigong, or one of many other names -. Many styles have survived for thousands of years, an indication of their universal truth, but the question of whether one is “better” than the other remains. » Read more: Can Gratitude Be a Form of Meditation?

Meditation and Abundance, Part III – Climbing Over the Wall of Doubt

October 23rd, 2011 by admin No comments »

In the final part of this series, we will explore the full potential of the mind in creating better personal realities. We will learn how to use the power of our beliefs and emotions to best effect, while remaining aware of the possible pitfalls of employing these unusual creative techniques. One of those pitfalls is trying too hard to make things happen, which can lead to frustration and failure, but the main challenge we must overcome is the constant resistance of the logical, conscious mind. As we noted at the start of this series, our desire to control our outer circumstances requires us first to master our own minds.

Belief Modification or Cognitive Dissonance?

Once we have recognized the extraordinary creative power of our own beliefs and emotions, and decided to change them – somehow – into something much more positive, we run into an immediate brick wall of doubt. If you are not currently enjoying particularly happy circumstances, then any time you spend believing that things are the way you want them to be is, in effect, a denial of your current reality. For mainstream psychologists (who, despite their years of training, have generally not realized just how powerful the mind really is) this amounts to cognitive dissonance. In layman’s terms, you can’t live in a dreamworld. And your conscious mind is going to constantly remind you of that fact.

In order to function properly in daily life, it is indeed important to deal with your world as it is. But if you never lift yourself mentally and spiritually above your current circumstances, those circumstances are not going to change. The easiest way for most of us to pull off the necessary balancing act is to confine our belief-modification activities to distinct meditative sessions – times when we do not have to take care of anything in the real world and are free to let our minds go. Once the session is over, we can let its effects linger on at a subconscious level while we return to everyday affairs, without focusing on any apparent inconsistency between the two. But what, exactly, should we do in such sessions? » Read more: Meditation and Abundance, Part III – Climbing Over the Wall of Doubt